feat(controller): add launch crash-loop budget

[OnlyTerp]

Summary

• add per-recipe launch failure budget with 3 failures / 10 minutes crash-loop blocking
• surface crash-loop state in recipes and system status
• reset launch failure budget on recipe edit/delete and successful ready launch

Verification

• bun test ../tests/controller/integration/runtime-recipe-contracts.test.ts -t "crash-loop budget"
• bun test ../tests/controller/integration/runtime-recipe-contracts.test.ts
• bun run typecheck (controller)
• npm run typecheck (frontend)

Known baseline

• npm run check:contracts still fails on pre-existing duplicate AggregatedSession exports in frontend session routes/contracts.