fix: emit query/node/{bytes/time} metrics on query failure to data nodes

[jtuglu1]

Description

Failed requests to data nodes (e.g. timeouts) will not log query/node/bytes, query/node/time, nor any backpressure metrics which are all useful in debugging bottlenecks for queries. Make sure these are emitted irrespective of whether the query was successful or not.

Release note

Emit query/node/{bytes/time} and backpressure metrics even on query failure to data nodes.

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• been tested in a test Druid cluster.

[maytasm]

LGTM